While the other maintenance should be done (ATF, clean PCV), they wouldn't cause vibration and rumbling.
Since the idle RPM is stable, I would take a good look at your engine mounts - all 5, the upper mount, the lower torque mount, front mount, rear mount and right side mount. With this many miles, likely more than one of them is worn and allowing the vibration to be transmitted into the car.
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